Why Traveling Together Keeps a Relationship Strong: Our Last-Minute Valentine’s Escape to Costa Rica

After 34 years of marriage, my husband and I have learned that love isn’t just about the big milestones—it’s in the little moments, the shared experiences, and the adventures that keep us connected. One of the biggest constants in our relationship has been our love of travel. From the early days of our marriage to now, we’ve explored the world together, and every trip has deepened our bond in a way that nothing else quite can.
This Valentine’s Day, we decided—on a whim—to take a last-minute trip to Costa Rica. Just days before, we booked our stay at the Andaz at Papagayo, packed our bags, and set off for a romantic getaway. And let me tell you—it was one of the best travel decisions we’ve ever made.

The Magic of Andaz at Papagayo
Nestled in the lush beauty of Costa Rica’s Papagayo Peninsula, the Andaz at Papagayo offered the perfect blend of luxury, nature, and warm hospitality. From the moment we arrived, we were enveloped in an atmosphere of serenity, adventure, and impeccable service. The resort’s design seamlessly blends into the surrounding tropical landscape, creating a sense of peace and privacy that felt like our own little paradise.
We spent our days soaking in the breathtaking views, relaxing by the infinity pool, indulging in fresh, locally inspired cuisine, and taking sunset walks along the pristine beaches. Each moment felt effortless and full of joy—just the two of us, away from the everyday routine, fully present with each other.
Why Traveling Together Matters—No Matter How Long You’ve Been Together
Over the years, we’ve come to realize that travel is more than just a getaway—it’s a relationship reset. Life is full of responsibilities, stress, and routines that can sometimes dull the spark of connection. But when we travel, we step outside of that routine and into a space where we can truly focus on each other.
Here’s why I believe every couple—whether newlyweds or decades into marriage—should prioritize traveling together:
- It Strengthens Your Bond Through Shared Experiences
Whether it’s navigating a new city, tasting exotic foods, or getting lost in an unexpected adventure, travel forces you to experience the world together. These shared moments create lasting memories that you can reminisce about for years to come. - It Rekindles Romance
There’s something undeniably romantic about discovering a new place together. Whether it’s playing in the ocean, riding horses on the beach, or simply enjoying an uninterrupted conversation over dinner, travel naturally creates opportunities for intimacy. - It Reminds You to Be Present
In our everyday lives, we’re often caught up in work, family obligations, and never-ending to-do lists. But when we travel, we slow down. We put away the distractions and focus on each other, appreciating the little things—like the way the other person’s eyes light up when they see something incredible or the laughter that comes from trying to communicate in a foreign language. - It Keeps the Adventure Alive
No matter how long you’ve been together, there’s always something new to discover about each other. Traveling to unfamiliar places brings out different sides of your personalities, encourages spontaneity, and reminds you that life—and love—is an adventure worth embracing.

Make It a Priority—Even If It’s Just a Weekend Getaway
You don’t have to fly to Costa Rica to experience the magic of traveling as a couple. Whether it’s a quick weekend road trip, a staycation at a cozy boutique hotel, or an international adventure, the key is to step away from the routine and into a shared experience.
After 34 years, my husband and I continue to prioritize travel—not because it’s a luxury, but because it’s a fundamental part of how we stay connected. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that love isn’t just about the years you’ve been together—it’s about the moments you create along the way.
So if you’ve been thinking about taking that trip with your partner, do it. Book the flight, pack your bags, and make the memories. Because the best part of any journey isn’t just the destination—it’s who you share it with.
Sending you love & light,
Stacy
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